Ladies answer only??? please? I beg you?????????

Wait until you're ready for a relationship. It's fair enough to end any inquiries by saying "I'm not ready for one" that should forestall any challenges. Some people are going to question your uality, and if you want to answer, just answer, and if you don't, "that has nothing to do with it". It's nobody's business what you do unless you want it to be. Some people don't want a relationship. Like who you are, and don't worry about what anybody thinks.