Help! I dont want to loose my family :(?

By the sounds of it you are both adults with children involved.I totally agree with you Sara this site is not designed to enable people to judge and criticise people!Especially by calling people idiots!Sounds like you are genuinely concerned about every ones feelings in this situation but at the end of the day you only need to make u and your children happy regard less of their feelings.Show them your an adult by standing by your decisions!As for MICHELLES needless and nasty comments if you had read what was writen before running your mouth off you wouldnt look like the IDIOT!